As you lay sleeping on my bed beside me I am full of so many different emotions that it is hard to know where to begin. If it is possible, I feel as if time is flying by even faster than it did with your big brother. Life as mother of two seems to move at breakneck speed! I fail to comprehend how a month of your life has already passed.
Becoming a parent the second time around has been altogether much easier and yet so very challenging all at the same time. Your Daddy and I knew better how to look after a newborn and we are second guessing ourselves less. We have simply decided to go with the flow and because of that I think we are responding to your needs pretty well and because of that, you have been a pretty “easy” baby. As long as you are fed and warm (and preferably in someone’s arms!) you are quite a content little boy! Life with a second baby seems very much to be more about coping than creating the “perfect” routine or following random “rules”. So you are often nursed to sleep, and you have slept in our bed for at least part of every night since you were born. The rest of the time you are happiest in our arms and we are almost always glad to indulge your preferences!
You are quite a good nurser and we seem to have hit our stride in that department fairly quickly. It took us a bit of time to figure out your latch, but we’re good now and you’re quite an efficient eater. Right now you are nursing about every 2 hours, which takes up a lot of my time, but I never mind snuggling with you…so it’s not really a hardship :-)
In the sleep department it has been hit and miss – but I guess that is normal for a newborn too. It took a little while for you to get your days and nights figured out and we have also struggled with some gas issues. But for the most part you sleep quite well at night – usually a 3-4 hour stretch at the start of the night and then you wake every two hours after that. When you’re gassy we often have to sleep with you on our chests for a while before you’ll let us lie you down, but for much of the night you are already sleeping quite happily in your own crib or bassinette. During the day you nap on and off – usually in your swing or bouncy chair or – most happily – wrapped against Mommy’s chest!
You are quite calm in the car for such a little babe, although you sometimes fuss when we first strap you into your car seat. Not that I blame you – a 5 point harness can’t be all that comfortable. I should also point out that at the ripe old age of 2 1/2 weeks you went on your first airplane ride. And you were a fabulous traveler!! You slept most of the way and even did super well on the 4 hour drive from Edmonton back to Cold Lake once we arrived in Alberta.
Speaking of Alberta, we are finally back “home” after our stay in Comox. Although we were ready to get back to our own house and our own routines, we were sad leave Auntie Gill and Uncle Brandon and all our friends in BC. And I know that Auntie Gill was especially sad to see us leave, too! Thankfully we don’t have long to wait to see her again, since she’s joining us for our trip to Ontario in August.
Some other notable things about your life at one month:
- Daddy is good at settling you when you’re all worked up;
- You are starting to follow my face with your eyes when I move; and,
- You are very tolerant of the many squeezes and cuddles you get from your big brother every day (both gentle and sometimes not-so-gentle!).
Some days I feel like you have been here for ever, and other days I am shocked that four weeks have already come and gone. I am trying my best to savour the moments, to relax and let the less important things go so that I can concentrate on nurturing you and our little family, but I know I don’t always succeed at that. What I am always successful at is loving you with all my heart. Your Daddy and brother and I waited a very long 9 months for you to finally be here and now that you are, we are so so happy to have you! You make me smile everyday, my sweet Owen, and I am certain that these first lovely weeks have only been a prelude to all the joy you will bring to our lives over the coming months and years.